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My Mom’s New Boyfriend (2008)
IMDB rating: 5.50
Plot: Henry Durand is a young federal agent who is given a difficult assignment: spy on his mother and her boyfriend who is suspected of leading a gang of art thieves.
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Actors: Banderas Antonio,Hanks Colin,Savastano Rocco,Adams Thomas Joseph,Adams Tom,Avni Aki,Barton Austin,Barton Barry,Beasley Dale,Billingsley John T.,Braverman Dan,Browne Edrick,Byrnes Michael,Colantoni Enrico,Constantinescu Andrei,Action,Comedy,Romance,Thriller,
29, pregnant and choose not to marry. My dad wont speak to me!?
I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and found out the beginning of October that I was pregnant. No, this was not planned at all and I was on birth control, but it is what it is and we are fine. I have a college degree, a great job, but me and my boyfriend dont want to force a marriage because I am pregnant, we want to marry because we are both ready and want to do it. He isnt going anywhere and our relationship is great. When I told my father I was pregnant his first comment was "bull sh*t". um not exactly what I was hoping for! He asked me when we were going to get married and I explained him our reasons why we were not. He said he wished he could be more happy about this but he just isnt, and walked off. My step mother put her hand on mine and told me she would pray for me, and that she knew that I would do the right thing. What? Pray for me? am I going to hell now? Neither one of them have called me since i told them the first of october and I am just so hurt and dissapointed. I could have said a lot of mean things to them out of spite, like well dad you had an affair on my mom and yall got married! see how well that worked out for them. I was a year old when my dad started messing around with the woman who is now my stepmother and he was still very much married to my mother. How dare they judge. I get it that they dont particularly like that I am not getting married, but dont cut me and their grandchild out. I got a card from them the other day that said a bunch of mumbo jumbo about God bless you and heal you, and getting strength through God, I dont need that, maybe they do. I know God is going to get me through this, maybe they should have sent the card to themselves. I want a phone call, I want an apology from my father!! Is that asking too much! Everyone says, "oh once that baby comes, they will be showering it with love and come around", um that would mean they didnt talk to me or apologize for almost a year. Thats just bs. I am a forgiving person, but they need to step up and apologize to me!! Am I just out of line here?
To princess cherbs— Both of us have been married and divorced! Im in no rush, if its meant to happen, it will. Look at Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russel, they have been going strong for how many years now and they are not married. Im focusing on having a healthy baby right now, not putting unecessary stress on a relationship thats already about to get stressful enough. besides if we can raise a baby together, what better way to know if its meant to be!
You’re not out of line at all, they’re being ridiculously old-fashioned. I know so many people who have children who are not married. Currently my brother and his girlfriend are having a baby. People place way too much importance on marriage. Perhaps they’re just in shock, but I do agree, you need an apology. He’s completely in the wrong. I find over religous people horrible and snobbish… I’d probably demand an apology. Or send them back a religous card.
And that comment annoyed me. "Catholic hey." Excuse me I’m from Ireland, so I am, and most other people are catholic. It has nothing to do with religon it’s to do with country. Catholics are generally very relaxed in Ireland. I’m sick of that stupid stereotype.
Lily | Nov 23, 2009
Catholic hey?
He will come around. I know you are sick of hearing it, but it is true. He is out of line, as per our more modern society. But it is you that is out of line in the religious sense.
You just have to see where he is coming from, and hope that he will do the same. It will never get better with you both being stubborn.
Try and go over, and tell him your reasoning. My question though, is that if your boyfriend isnt going anywhere, why hasnt he proposed?
Princess Cherbs | Nov 23, 2009
Well your 29 and speaking for a 29 year old perspective because that is how old I am, I would say who cares. Your dad will eventually come around believe it or not. Just let it go for now and move on. I agree that you shouldn’t get married because your are pregnant, that is not the answer. I had a huge falling out with my dad when I was younger because my parents were getting a divorce and every time I saw him he would bad mouth my mom. I couldn’t stand it and decided I wouldn’t put up with it anymore so I stopped talking to him. He tried, not very hard, but did try to make contact with me a couple of times, but I denied him and eventually after a while I went back to him again to make a mends and see how things would work and surprisingly he was much better. He stopped talking about my mom and we were able to have a relationship. Your dad loves you and he will eventually come around. Give him some time, and see how things are in a few months. You still have time before your baby arrives for things to smooth over. He may just need time for the news to sink in. He’s human and not perfect, just like you. He does owe you an apology for treating you like a child, but just forgive him. Don’t expect an apology though because if you don’t get one you may be in for a terrible let down. I don’t think my dad every apologized to me, but I know he didn’t mean it and I forgave him.
Good luck girl! And congrats on your new baby.
Dragonfly girl due 12.8 w/ Haley | Nov 23, 2009
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